Bad Boys are not necessarily badly behaved. Bad boys love their moms, in fact they have an unusually strong attachment (Perhaps stemming from a life of together trembling before a dominant, charismatic, yet hurtful dad? Hurt people hurt people. Yet this cycle is not mine to amend. I die trying.). Bad Boys are always proving their worth. They need an audience to reassure them. They take highly visible risks, they spend big. They love to talk and are great storytellers — not conversationalists, storytellers.Read More
Absolutely adore my painting of my beautiful sister, Andy! You captured her beauty and soul! Her laughter and happiness for life. Forever young!
I just received the package. I'm speechless! Totally blown away by how well Michelle captured my husband and me. It's beyond what I could have imagined. Thank you so much for everything!
Thank you, Manisha Koirala for portraying melancholy so gorgeously and providing my teen angst a template upon which to model. Thank you JLo for teaching me to love my bum. Thank you, Salma, for teaching me to love my skin. Thank you, Victoria Beckham, for Posh Spice. You are the reason why I could never be compelled to smile for photos in the 90s.
Working With My Favorite Artist for My AW17 Collection
by Anna Costello, designer at Paradise Laboratory LA
I was recently able to work with my favorite artist, Michelle Thomas, for my upcoming collection, titled "Something Special". Michelle Thomas was my art teacher my sophomore and junior years at Hazelwood Central High School. Michelle's mother was also my English teacher. I know in fact that if I never took Michelle's courses in high school I wouldn't be where I am creatively today. I, for sure, hated high school until I took Michelle's class in 2009. Michelle introduced me to my creative, artistic self. Michelle made me go outside of the box, pushed me hard, and never let me quit what I started. I received a 112% in Michelle's class. When I left St. Louis my senior year of high school and transferred to Venice High School in Los Angeles, Michelle and I never lost contact, and she became more of a mentor to me. I know I'm not the only student Michelle saved in high school; there are a handful of us. Michelle is truly heaven sent! Michelle eventually left the Midwest and moved to San Francisco in 2012. In November 2016 she quit her corporate job in Silicon Valley to find balance in her life and to focus on art. She moved to India for five moths and spent time in Stockholm and Barcelona to find inspiration, get our of her usual surroundings, and to see herself clearly. Michelle is now back in San Fran, focusing on painting and a simplified lifestyle. The image above is a watercolor painting by Michelle Thomas. You will see more of Michelle's work in my aw17 collection which I plan to release in October or early November! I'm so grateful for Michelle's help. She's really helping me make "Something Special" really special.
Your painting is in my office waiting room. Keep getting a lot of compliments. Most of my patients think it is me when I was younger with my daughter. Best wishes!
But now, the ABCDs are no longer huts and farms and gray dust (Most of what they know they know from National Geographic and a two-week trip to great-grandmother’s deathbed ten years back.). The great Indian mall is an absolute shock — Indians in silks with swagger and Adidas and Rado watches and haircuts they’d never be bold enough to try.Read More
To the Older Gentleman Who Only Wanted an AudienceRead More
But in the suburbs, in the 90s, in the great American Midwest, where could a youth go to act out the beat life? Enter Starbucks with her siren call, replete with mismatched armchairs, almond biscotti, and warm piano jazz, a glimpse into the archetypical metropolis.Read More
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Here in English class, we took apart (I'd use the word ‘dissected’ to get their attention) passages of prose or poetry and study the different parts under the microscope of literary analysis, then put them back together to see why and how they worked so well together to create the expression on the face of the page. It was a stretch, but I’d add: “Just like Mrs. Sylve does with her robots."
Meet the Bon Vivants is a series that showcases my favorite thinkers and good-lifers, all personal friends with important ideas and interesting musings.
Flor Reyes, LA native and citizen of the world, travels on a whim. Over a long weekend, you are more likely to find her hiking the volcanoes of Costa Rica than at home in San Jose. Flor shares her international recommendations with us here:
Best hotel: Skuggi Hotel, Reykjavik, Iceland http://www.keahotels.is/en/hotels/skuggi-hotel
Best hostels: The Flying Pig (Downtown) -- Red Light District, Amsterdam http://www.flyingpig.nl/hostels/flyingpigdowntown.php; Pariwana Hostel -- Lima, Peru http://www.pariwana-hostel.com/hostels/lima/; Kex Hostel -- Reykjavik Iceland http://www.kexhostel.is
Favorite museum: Centre Pompidou, Paris https://www.centrepompidou.fr/en
Favorite places to photograph: Jokulsarlón (Glacier Lagoon), Iceland; Muir Woods, Mill Valley, CA; Kings Canyon National Park, CA; Machu Picchu, Aguas Calientes, Peru
Most hospitable city: Mexico City, Mexico -- one of the most vibrant, large, and welcoming cities I have ever visited.
Favorite restaurant: El Sushi Loco, La Puente, CA
Best bar: The Red Lion Tavern -- Silver Lake, CA: "Cozy German tavern and beer garden, serving traditional German food close to downtown Los Angeles;" The Rose & Crown English Pub, Palo Alto, CA
Favorite rental vehicle: The 2014 Jeep Patriot that I drove around Iceland. It crushed snow like a machine, had surprisingly good gas mileage, and the sound system was bumpin’!
Favorite tattoo parlor: Reykjavik Ink
Best seafood: Puerto Nuevo, Baja California. Lobster world! Best seafood I have had in my life, oh my God!
Best street food: The best street food, hands down, can be found on 8th St and Irolo St in Koreatown, LA. There are many vendors serving up delicious and hearty Mexican meals, sweets, and other goodies from Latin America (in Koreatown). Large portions for under $4!!!
Favorite souvenirs: Artisan goods from San Salvador, El Salvador
Qualities to look for in a travel buddy: I recommend traveling with someone who understands the importance of a good mid-day nap and who is willing to wake up at 5:00 AM to hike up a mountain to be first in line to get to Machu Picchu.
Best place to travel solo: Definitely Iceland. And Barcelona.
Best party spot: Downtown Los Angeles and Barcelona
Best concert: Daft Punk at the LA Sports Arena, July 2007 -- "What followed was a performance that had the energy and emotion of a religious experience, not only living up to the hype, but shattering my concepts of how amazing a live performance by an electronic music act could be." http://laist.com/2007/07/22/daft_punk_live.php
Best festival: Outside Lands, San Francisco
Most relaxing: Manuel Antonio, Costa Rica and Maui, Hawai’i
Most stimulating: Lima, Peru (Miraflores District and Historic District)
Most colorful: Puerto Maldonado in the Peruvian Amazon
Favorite sunrise: Höfn, Iceland. It was at 10:45 AM and dark until then, so it was beautiful.
Best climate: Berkeley/Oakland, California
Favorite form of transportation: Flying in small planes — they are so scary, but they have the most scenic views because they fly so low. Also public buses.
Favorite airline: Aeromexico — Free food and free alcohol, even on short flights! And of course, Icelandair. Best in-flight entertainment and customer service, and they play BJORK’s music!
Favorite sunset: Nothing beats LA sunsets. Nothing.
On a sun-dappled Friday, in response to some long-winded, rambling, oft-repeated complaints, a friend chastised me for selling myself short in romance (You know who you are and I thank you.). As the day went on, her argument consumed me, and that evening I, in turn, berated another friend for selling herself too short, forwarding along an inspiring screenshot from friend #1. I was harsh and cutting, yes, because I saw my behaviors in hers (You also know who you are, and I’m very sorry.). When we finished texting, I flung my phone in frustration.
I took the long weekend to stop and think. I ignored all calls (a real feat, as my dear friend Flor has diagnosed me with e-OCD). I sat up in bed tapping my chin and sometimes slid down into long naps. One of the most productive weekends of my life.
Between sleep and dreams, I realized it is important for a woman to respect her womanhood. Expect to be loved. Demand love. Don’t slip along timidly accepting anything less. You are not Casper the friendly asexual ghost. Assume you are pursued because you are loved and drop anyone who is demanding of your time while offering something less than love. “Wow,” said Flor when she read these words, “You’ve come a long way, MST!” Well, I hope so, Flor. It’s about time. And it’s about time. We must stop friend-zoning ourselves. Friend-zoning is at fault. Texting is at fault. Ghosting is at fault. Emojis are very much at fault. We don’t have time. We are each looking for someone beautiful and respectable and intriguing enough to love, but we have to learn to put that quest in the background instead of making it the prevailing topic of all our lunch hours and girls’ nights and smudged and deflated after-parties.
So let’s fill our lonely hours with activities we enjoy, the arts and travel and eating and exercise, leisure pursuits that build up, with people we love and who love us too (!). Our lives abound with healthy relationships, with people who are loyal for the simple reason of shared blood or a history that includes a thousand inside jokes; they ride out bratty behavior, buoy us through loss, hear a tremble behind the words “I’m fine." Our parents, our nieces and nephews, our old college roommates await. Let’s seek them out, revel in an unconditional affection which heals and feeds. This way, we remain whole, vital beings, growing richer and finer over time — rather than allowing ourselves to be chipped at and hurt by the careless who don't really mean to inflict such harm but nevertheless cause a lot of lasting damage. Love yourself, said my friend, and demand love from others, I say (always shooting for the extreme), and settle for nothing less. You have better ways to pass the time.
And when the pickings are slim, nay, nada-null-zero, Sir Charming hasn’t stepped up and there’s no one with potential that you’d like to pull from the pool, spend a luscious weekend in bed. We can all benefit from beauty sleep.
Meet the Bon Vivants is a new series that showcases the work of my favorite thinkers and good-lifers, all personal friends with important ideas and interesting musings.
In Life of Pi, a novel singularly notable for its premise, Yann Martel makes the case that belief is an intellectual choice that takes great courage. It should come after an examination of available options and then tested for its ability to sustain one mentally and emotionally, even physically though life's trials. The spiritually-inclined Pi chooses as his mentors those who, like him, make the human search for meaning a priority and take a considered stand either for or against the concept of a divine plan. Pi spends time evaluating the statements of many adults in his life, from Mr. Kumar the atheist scientist to Father Martin the Catholic priest, patiently questioning each one in an effort to understand different means of organizing the universe and which rings true for him.
I'm glad to know just such a seeker in real life -- Meet Tom Quinn. The Scottish-born writer, psychologist, and educator shares his personal quest in the following interview featured on jw.org. Tom and his wife Karen have been incredibly kind, perceptive, intelligent mentors during my own journey, and I am forever grateful for their friendship.
From Writing to Heal by James Pennebaker --
"Since the mid-1980s an increasing number of studies have focused on the value of expressive writing as a way to bring about healing. The evidence is mounting that the act of writing about traumatic experience for as little as fifteen or twenty minutes a day for three or four days can produce measurable changes in physical and mental health. Emotional writing can also affect people's sleep habits, work efficiency, and how they connect with others."
When the wind blew cool, cold that June, he hugged her close and laughed, “Remember San Francisco?” When that wind led to rain and a sticky humidity, he was reminded of Singapore’s hot, wet, delicious dewiness and they went for Chinese in a part of town that was not quite Chinatown but had enough dumplings and spicy slithery noodles and shrimp for him to nearly recreate that exotic weekend layover.Read More
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The following essay, from the collection Le Midwest: an ode to the noble suburbanite, illustrates the impact of one dedicated teacher on my early professional choices.
One fine day:
1 We all want the same thing, don’t we? A little kid’s picture of paradise looks so similar to a big person’s picture of paradise with a swaying palm tree and a smiley-faced sun. I’ll paint my dreams and forget about making all those statements about war and injustice. Statements are tiresome. I’ll go walking to the market for bananas with my man and go fishing with my babies and I’ll do mehandi for visitors and I won't have to sell my paintings in paradise or do graphic design because we’ll just live off the land. A little garden, some chickens, a boxer dog or two.
“You’ll go far, Michelle, Rani G,” Mr. M— said before he disappeared too far away for me to hear clearly. “Everything you touch becomes gold, you see that, Michelle?” And then he left me all alone. But he gave me a foundation. Confidence in the art that I make, a confidence that cannot be found in any other part of my personality. I’ll go far. What’s far, Mr. M—? Far away? To my pretty bungalow by the ocean with fancy friends and beautiful children, a handsome husband, two boxer dogs, and walls full of paintings?
2 She shrugs her shoulders and bats a little shine into her eyes, sighing deeply, “Ah, you darlings. I appreciate your concern, but we’ve done a thorough investigation into the matter.”
“Did you speak to any students?”
“No. It was a confidential matter.”
“Then what investigation, ma’am?”
Politics labels passion as lunacy. Labels a goodbye kiss as sexual harassment. Discipline as discrimination.
Don’t expect us to get motivated.
A lovely homogeneous family is created with two namesake black teachers who kinda want to bust out but have got to grin and hold on to those good suburban-school-district jobs. The noisemakers are only noisemakers because they know somebody who knows somebody who knows somebody who knows somebody who can get something done. Any other noisemakers are sexual harassers, bigots, or lunatics.
3 As I pulled the oxidized skin off the ink in the tin, that orange, crusty rust off to reveal still moist Vine Black #2, still alive after a year without moisture, I thought of you. Your ink. The ink you left behind for nobody to use. I turned around and all the Mona Lisas gone and the Giacometti sketch, Walking, the “essence of energy and movement and activity,” and the ballerinas and Romare Bearden poster, all disappeared. Ran off with you.
Seniors don’t rush around with mats and erasers and slide carousels anymore, getting ready for the spring contests and exhibitions. Rachie looking a little winded with no one to argue with and all subtlety lost on Mr. K—, the potter. And I’ve graduated to a place muddled in pretension and shaky hot air philosophical abstraction. Shhh. I was anticipating that, but I was counting on visiting you like a jet up for air before another plunge into the deep end again.
My folder was still there with every drawing intact, and the print you promised to mat on the last day I didn’t know was the last day was matted and framed. Complete as promised--“Not neat, not nothing.”
You didn’t touch her.
“Not neat, not nothing,” inside out, outside in. Now nothing left.
The classroom was so still early in the morning with no Drawing I freshmen tumbling in to cram a value scale before 8:00 (no excuses). Just K— in his office and Mrs. S— next door. And I’m standing there not just missing you, but missing my table, waiting for the bell with Jon and Anuj who snuck in from K—’s study hall and the day I first walked in when you proclaimed, “Girl, you’re good, but here you are going to learn how to take on the world.” And the senior with the red button-down eyeing me from across the room, in that seat. And how you never let the silly boys visit me during school study hall except for Sidaker because he was Indian and intelligent and could help me with physics.
Remember Gesture Day Fridays? Drafting tape made from blue-jean lint covered masking tape and, “Draw, draw, draw, 30 seconds left, 15 seconds, two seconds,” a long pause, then, “Aw, guys, I gave you too much time. . .”
You made Mike a true bohemian. At Webster, now he only goes by his Russian name and and he likes to stand on the tables and talk about art the way you did on the day he transferred to North from the Jewish school.
We talked to her. She said you were crazy. “I can’t give you any details, but. . .” Grave smile.
Anyway, I broke all school rules and didn’t get a Visitor’s Pass because I’m not a visitor and I went to our drawing room and I felt you died. I couldn’t feel a clean plaid shirt and braided leather belt and Levi’s and loafers and an oddly matching tie. I couldn’t smell pink erasers. I’m looking around the corners and behind the flat file trying to show you my new piece, wanting to hear, “Rani G, Rani G, (which means the Queen of G[raphite]), you have a Midas touch, girl, you make this job worth it.” And so I went there and missed that buzz so badly and saw the crusty skin on that always wet ink and was tottering around the room, looking in the hallway for Camran or Mr. R—, someone who could share this loss. The wet, moist, fecund ink crusted over like a scab, but when I pulled the dry skin off I found you, and I went about inking the plate with a righteous fervency, knowing I learned from the best. You put me on that hot-air balloon and got the fire red and roaring and then vanished so that when I turned around to find you I choked for a moment but found out I could fly now on my own. What’s it like now? Do you miss us? Teaching at a place where half the students have a universe on their shoulders and no energy to explore?
“Why even bother teaching, Mr. M—?”
“There’s a burning building, Rani G, and you’ve got a choice: Do you save the Rembrandt or do you save the cat? One one now, Rani.”
“No! The cat, the cat! The cat is still alive, it’s still breathing, it’s still got a whole life to experience! Save the cat.”
And so now I’m having fantasies of standing in front of a class and loving every one of those kids and giving them nicknames like Commie and DJ Ho and Cami and Sphynx. I’m having these dreams of standing in front of a class with a gray pleated skirt and an oddly matching sweater, saying, “I’m Miss Thomas,” before I start banging the projection screen with a yardstick, praising the rhythm and balance in a lonely Hopper.
I found you, I found you, I found you when I found that still breathing ink, like a commission to stand on tables and to make them come to class on time and to coax them into a habit of classical music. I’ll drop graphic design in a flash if you say the word. I can just imagine, “I taught you everything you know so now you can help scam America, staring at a blue screen blinking away your regret.”
Today I missed you so much. I missed you so much.